Bondage & Fetish Massage in Phoenix, AZ

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Are you brand new to BDSM (bondage discipline dominance submission sadomasochism) and perhaps a bit curious but still rather hesitant? Maybe you are wondering what all the “50 Shades of Grey” buzz is all about but are too afraid to try anything hardcore. Well, I understand completely. It can be rather daunting to decide with whom to take that intimidating first step. I feel a Bondage Massage session can be the perfect introduction session for you.  Perfect for first-timers, If you’ve been thinking about adding a little something extra to your sex life, bondage may just be the perfect thing to explore.

You may have seen some aspects of bondage in movies or in porn. Or maybe you’ve heard stories from close friends or family.

Although most people think that bondage equates to being tied up, it’s actually so much more than that.

When incorporated into other things, such as massage, it’s an extremely fun and playful element to add to your sex life.

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What Exactly Is “Bondage Massage?”

It is an erotic massage technique that combines all of the elements of a sensual massage with some BDSM, spanking, sensory deprivation (blindfolds, ear-plugs), and sensation play…Bondage Massage is a way to explore, play with, and enhance sensation by restricting movement, sight, and normal hearing.

Basically, when you incorporate massage and bondage into your sensual play, I use items such as cuffs and ties to restrain you during massage or foreplay.

This helps to heighten the sensual experience for both you and me. 

It’s sexy and fun - and a great way for people who are new to kink to play with Dominance and submission and learn more about touch, sensation, and impact play.

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How does bondage massage enhance sensuality?

The erotic Bondage massage is an exciting erotic massage, where your boundaries are explored. The Bondage massage has an exciting touch in where I blindfold you, tie you up, or put on handcuffs….

I will surprise you with my erotic massage: Perhaps I will use my hands, teeth, leather whip, a feather..?

A Bondage massage means ultimate enjoyment of an exciting erotic massage. 

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Bondage Massage FAQ'S

Bondage Massage is a modern fusion of both bondage and massage practices in all their varied forms. The practice blends kink and different forms of bodywork to provide an all-encompassing, multi-sensory, and oh-so-tantalizing experience to whoever wishes to experience it.

 

Why do you think someone might seek out to experience Bondage Massage? What can they gain/how can they benefit from Bondage Massage?

Seeking out Bondage Massage represents an effort to reach beyond the normal sensual/sexual experience. Bondage Massage requires that the recipient relinquish control, both physically and mentally, and thus be submissive to the practitioner/giver.  Sensory deprivation provides the opportunity to get into a different headspace where the pleasure center of the brain takes over. Bondage Massage allows the recipient to FEEL pleasure in the body AND the mind.

 

Why do you think exploring the sensual side of kink is so important?

We are all touch-deprived. Kinesthetic intelligence ~ the ability to be present through touch ~ varies from person to person. Sensual massage is all about being present at the moment with both your awareness and your touch. It’s about how deeply and consciously you can go into the art of giving your partner pleasure, and Bondage Massage is a great way to learn to do it and receive it.

 

Are other types of holistic bodywork incorporated into Bondage Massage? If so, what?

I incorporate Swedish massage, Erotic Massage, deep tissue, and Sensual Massage into my Bondage Massage sessions.

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In what ways does Bondage Massage intersect with other traditional types of bondage practices?

I incorporate traditional BDSM elements (collar, cuff, restraints) into our sequence.

 

 

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My Bondage Massage session…

Erotic massage with BDSM takes place regarding the agreed scenario. You and I will define our roles during the massage, and by your own desire, you state the playing rules, such as limits, bonuses, and punishment. The essence of BDSM is an absolute submitting to a partner both physically and psychically.

I welcome the man who prefers to be an obedient, submissive servant who's dominated by a woman. I enable you to experience any of your dreams and join your play. You will forget that you are in a session and move to a different world playing your main role. The whole session of BDSM massage is very intensive – but it’s just you and I in the situation you choose to be in, and in the world, you’ve created by yourself.

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Preparation. At first, you will get a proper massage of the whole body which is the basis of the procedure. It will set your body free and prepare your mind to become self-confident and get rid of all barriers.

I am well experienced and will lead you sensitively to the BDSM world. Don’t be afraid of new challenges and discover an extra pleasure given by massage with BDSM.

 

It’s not about any one-way humiliating, but it is about a harmonic play between partners where an individual is taught to accept and give. Everything is by agreement.

Ultimately, Bondage Massage is about trust. The receiver can’t totally surrender to sensation and pleasure if they’re not totally confident that the giver is going to take good care of them. It’s important to establish this relationship at the start and not betray it. 

I encourage you to let go and surrender to the sensations. I love moans and sighs of pleasure and I pay exquisite attention to your body.

Although Bondage Massage is a sequence, I approach each session as if we were two jazz musicians having a jam session. Connection, attention, improvisation, open-hearted playfulness is integral to having an amazing session.

I will blend elements of submissive training as I have you kneel before me as we get calmly acquainted.  Then I will have you offer me your wrists which I will lightly and comfortably bind signaling that it is okay for you to surrender now because you are safe with me.  I will then lead you to my table or bed and combine elements of massage, bodywork, and percussive play like floggers and light spanking with a mix of sweet and mildly evil sensation play toys like clothespins, brushes, feathers, fur, electricity, vibrators, etc to create a delightful erotic endorphin fueled roller coaster of “ahhh” and “oooh” and an occasional mild “oww” and back again.  Your limits will of course be respected and I will watch your responses closely and promise not to push you further than you wish to go .. until you are ready.  I want to always leave you craving a bit more next time.  

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As an add-on...

Edging, as orgasm control lends itself quite well to BDSM practices.

“Tie and tease” is the coupling of edging with bondage. This can be a physically, and psychologically intense experience, as sexual tensions, and frustrations are further exacerbated by the helpless of being in bondage.

“Tease and denial,” also referred to as “orgasm denial” is essentially edging without any release. Orgasm denial is a great way to establish, and exercise control over someone. The intense arousal and psychological need that can be cultivated with orgasm denial often helps one to enjoy intense feelings of erotic submission, and surrender. Orgasm denial can be taken one step further, into chastity… but that’s a topic for another time.

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If this sounds delicious to you, we will start by having you provide me with some background info about your previous experience as well as some insights into what kink fantasies you may have, as well as any info you may need to provide me about your physical being so we can play safely (old injuries, any condition or medication that may impact our play, etc). Once I have that we can proceed to set up our session. There's a space to write everything on my Contact form.
 

Schedule today and let yourself enjoy the absolutely new and intensive feelings of the erotic BDSM massage... It is a great experience for bold men with an open mind.

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