Mutual Massage
Mutual Massage in Phoenix, AZ
Mutual massage is one of the lesser-known massage types because it truly is so out of the ordinary. Simply put, mutual massage is a role reversal.
I will massage you then you can massage me. Many of my friends look at this opportunity as a type of privilege being that I am often referred to as a beautiful, sexy goddess.
This particular massage package can be broken into whatever timeframes you prefer, most opting for half and half, half spent on you, and the other half spent on your providing a pleasurable experience to me as I share in my art of tantric massage. I recommend 2 hours or longer for this massage.
Learning the Art of Erotic Massage
As a tantric massage goddess, I am trained in the art of tantra. I apply the techniques I have learned from tantra to every single different form of massage that is offered. By allowing yourself hands-on practice before you leave your session with me, you can pick up a few tips and tricks from the art of tantra to take home with you.
The art of erotic massage is something you can carry with you forever, allowing you to bring heightened sensations to your physical relationships in your everyday life.
The art of erotic massage Is an ancient art that dates back to some of the earliest times of human existence, giving you a sense of connection to the earth and its surroundings.
You will not only learn the physical aspects of massage, but you will also truly understand the connectedness of energy when massages are given and received. You will learn about pleasure, release, and fulfillment by ridding someone of negative energies and painful physical sensations. Learning the art of erotic massage gives a wide-open door to become better inside and outside of the bedroom.
Why Mutual Massage vs Other Erotic Massage
It’s undeniable that erotic massage is a pleasurable experience for the receiver. With me, you’re almost guaranteed a wonderful experience that will rid you of the stress you are carrying in your body. However, there is a huge benefit to giving.
The science of giving is that when we give, we feel good, and feeling good is undeniably contagious. Giving creates a sort of radiation from you that allows you to feel good, passing it along to everyone else in your pathway. On top of that, giving pleasure gives you the opportunity to feel a sense of pride in yourself that can help you feel more confident.
This often leads to conducting yourself in a way that represents those positive feelings inside. This is great for creating healthy, positive environments in your life which can ultimately create more fulfilling sexual relationships at the end of the day. Giving an erotic massage is a way that everyone wins, inside and outside of our facility.
Benefits of a Mutual Massage
Mutual massage does more than show you the art of erotic massage. It benefits you “in the now” as well.
Mutual massage can be great to help with a range of different disorders that many men suffer from on a daily basis such as premature ejaculation, lack of libido, and other common ailments that may plague a sexual relationship.It helps teach you to control your sensations, breathe through your movements, and direct the pleasure to another being rather than yourself. If you have any troubles or doubts about your abilities in a sexual relationship, I highly encourage this massage as a way to learn about yourself, but more importantly to learn about the pleasure points in your partner, allowing for a better experience all around.
Yoni Massage Education
Yoni is the Sanskrit word for the vagina that is loosely translated as "sacred space" or "Sacred Temple." In Tantra, the Yoni is seen from a perspective of love and respect. This is particularly important for men to learn.
Before beginning the Yoni Massage it is important to create a space for the woman (the receiver) in which to relax, from which she can more easily enter a state of high arousal and experience great pleasure from her Yoni. Her partner (the giver) will experience the joy of giving pleasure and witnessing a special moment. The Yoni Massage can also be used as a form of "safe sex" and is an excellent activity to build trust and intimacy. Some massage and sex therapists use it to assist women to break through sexual blocks or trauma.
The goal of the Yoni massage is not solely to achieve orgasm, although orgasm is often a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal can be as simple as to pleasure and massage the Yoni. From this perspective, both receiver and giver can relax and do not have to worry about achieving any particular goal. When orgasm does occur it is usually more expanded, more intense, and more satisfying. It is also helpful for the giver to not expect anything in return, but simply allow the receiver to enjoy the massage and to relax into herself.
The Massage
Have the receiver lie on her back with pillows under her head so she can look down at her genitals and up at her partner (giver). Place a pillow, covered with a towel, under her hips. Her legs are to be spread apart with the knees slightly bent (pillows or cushions under the knees will also help) and her genitals clearly exposed for the massage. This position allows full access to the Yoni and other parts of the body. Before contacting the body, begin with deep, relaxed breathing. Both the giver and receiver should remember to breathe deeply, slowly, and with relaxation during the entire process. The giver will gently remind the receiver to start breathing again if the receiver stops or begins to take shallower breaths. Deep breathing, not hyperventilating, is most important.
Gently massage the legs, abdomen, thighs, breasts, etc., to encourage the receiver to relax and for the giver to prepare for touching her Yoni. Pour a small quantity of a high-quality oil or lubricant on the mound of the Yoni. Pour just enough so that it drips down the outer lips and covers the outside of the Yoni. Begin gently massaging the mound and outer lips of the Yoni. Spend time here and do not rush. Relax and enjoy giving the massage.
Gently squeeze the outer lip between the thumb and index finger, and slide up and down the entire length of each lip. Do the same to the inner lips of the Yoni/vagina. Take your time. It is helpful for the giver and receiver to look into each other's eyes as much as possible. The receiver should tell the giver if the pressure, speed, depth, etc. need to be increased or decreased. Limit your conversation and focus on the pleasurable sensation, too much talking will diminish the effect.
The Crown Jewel
The clitoris is an amazingly complex structure, similar in function to the male's glans, but surprisingly - up to four times more sensitive. The glans portion of the clitoris holds 6,000 - 8,000 sensory nerve endings, more than any other structure in the human body. This hypersensitive node has only one purpose: pleasure. Nothing exceeds its ability to receive and transmit sensations of touch, pressure, or vibration. The glans are the "crown jewel" of the clitoral system!
Stroke the clitoris with clockwise and counter-clockwise circles. Gently squeeze it between thumb and index fingers. Do this as a massage and not to get the receiver off. The receiver will undoubtedly become very aroused but continue to encourage her to relax and breathe.
Slowly and with great care, insert the middle finger of your right hand into the Yoni (there is a reason for using the right hand as opposed to the left. It has to do with polarity in Tantra). Very gently explore and massage the inside of the Yoni with this finger. Take your time, be gentle, and feel up, down, and sideways. Vary the depth, speed, and pressure. It is important to remember that this is a massage in which you are nurturing and relaxing the Yoni. With your palm facing up, and the middle finger inside the Yoni, move the middle finger in a "come here" gesture or crook back towards the palm. You will contact a spongy area of tissue just under the pubic bone, behind the clitoris. This is the G-spot or in Tantra, "the sacred spot". She may feel the need to urinate, experience a little discomfort, or most hopefully pleasure.
Vary the pressure, speed, and pattern of movement. You can move side to side, back and forth, or in circles with your middle finger. You can also insert the finger that's between your middle finger and pinky.
Most women should have no problem and will enjoy the increased stimulation from two fingers.
Take your time and be very gentle. You may use the thumb of the right hand to stimulate the clitoris as well. An option to try if the receiver wants it is to insert the pinky of the right hand into her anus. [In Tantra, it is said that when your pinky is gently massaging her anus, the next finger and middle finger in her Yoni and your thumb on her clitoris, "You are holding one of the mysteries of the universe in your hand."]
You can use your left hand to massage her breasts, abdomen, or clitoris. If you massage the clitoris it's usually best to use the thumb in an up-down motion, with the rest of the hand resting on, and massaging the mound. The dual stimulation of the right and left hands will provide much pleasure for the receiver. Continue massaging, using varying speed, pressure, and motion, all the while continuing to breathe deeply and looking into each other's eyes. She may have powerful emotions come up and may cry. Just keep breathing and be gentle. Some women have been sexually abused and need to be healed. A giving, loving and patient partner can be of immeasurable value to her. If she has an orgasm, keep her breathing, and continue massaging if she wants. More orgasms may occur, each gaining in intensity. In Tantra, this is called "riding the wave."
In ending the massage, slowly, gently, and with respect, remove your hands. Allow her to relax and enjoy the afterglow of the Yoni massage. Cuddling or holding is very soothing as well. As you learn to master the Yoni Massage your sex life will be greatly enriched and you will learn a great deal about feminine sexuality.
If you would like to book yourself in for a luxury mutual massage, please send me your request for a booking via my contact form. I look forward to seeing you soon!